What are my options for post junior hockey?

I currently play on a crap junior hockey team but I plan to join a more competitive junior hockey team next year with dreams of going to the NHL. I go to a community college currently and I will turn 19 in July of 2010. So I have only 2 years left of junior puck after this year. If I don't make it on to a college hockey team or into the NHL where can I continue to play competitive hockey? Is there anyway I still have a chance at the NHL? Heres the kicker, I refuse to play in a mens adult league. I just see it as a joke and an excuse for pot bellied wash-ups to get drunk and fight each other.