I just met someone who I think is disrespectful?

She doesn't seem so at first, but she litters (intentionally), she leaves her garbage laying all over in stores, etc. and she is a smoker who thinks that her husband not letting her smoke in their apartment is a violation of rights or something. Her parents are devout Christians, her father is a minister. I doubt they raised her to be this way. How do people get like this? Do you know anyone like this? What do you say to them?